As this week moves along and people all over are preparing for Thursday and Thanksgiving in all different kinds of ways, I too am preparing for the day.
Grocery list, baking, cooking (they are two very different things, you know), cleaning up, planning the timing around the parade *ahem*, and things like that.
But I’m also, just a little, working on preparing my heart.
An attitude of gratitude is something my Mama drilled in us. Be thankful. In all things. I think she really liked what that guy Paul in the Good Book said about that. She took him at his word. And wanted us to live it too.
As I prepare for Thanksgiving, I am looking towards next Sunday as well. The first Sunday in Advent.
To be honest, I didn’t really know much about Advent until maybe twenty-five years ago.
And I have continued to learn more and more since that time.
I love the rituals, the lighting of the candles on the wreath. The getting ready. The settling of the soul. The quiet meditations and devotions.
Oh, the quiet.
Each year for the past four, I’ve hoped to start our school year early enough that we can take some time off from our traditional lessons to step outside the box in December and go in another direction. And each year, for whatever reason, that has been torpedoed, and we’ve worked right up through the third week in December.
But this year?
*shhhh* Don’t tell anyone, lest the universe find out and totally mess this up for us, but I think it’s going to happen.
I want for us to have time to read Christmas stories, learn about holiday traditions from different cultures, watch Christmas movies, sing songs, make cookies, play, and not have every single day structured.
That’s my holiday wish.
I am very happy that we are heading in that direction. I already have some books picked out to share with my littles. I have a couple of “read every day” books that we will start on Sunday or Monday (it being the first and all). One really sweet one that I’m looking forward to reading with them for the very first time is Advent Storybook by Antonie Schneider, Maja Dusikova, and translated by Marisa Miller. We haven’t read any of it together yet, but as I looked over it today, it touched my heart and made me smile. I think we will all enjoy it. It’s the story of a little bear who wants Christmas to come fast, so his mother agrees to tell him a story each night until then. So there are twenty-four stories about another little bear and his trek to Bethlehem. Very sweet.
Embracing the magic of the season, we will again pull out our copy of Letters from Father Christmas by J.R.R. Tolkien.
Yes. That guy.
It’s a collection of the letters that were sent to the Tolkien family home over the many years his children were small and home. The stories will make you laugh and want to hear them all over again…..and so we will do just that.
I came across the books The Jesse Tree: Daily Readings for Advent and Gobsmacked: Daily Devotions for Advent by Thom M. Shuman a few years ago. These are both beautifully written Advent devotionals that I dearly love. I ordered them as downloads, e-book style, from this website, as hard copies were not available at the time. I love everything Mr. Shuman has ever written. If you haven’t read any of his poetry before, please take the time to do so. Powerful and grace-filled. Beautiful. You can find it here.
This time of year can be so wonderful in many ways, but it can also be hard. For many the darkness is not just because the sun is going down a little earlier. Many people struggle with loss and pain and brokenness that doesn’t go away magically, despite the wonder and brightness of the season. It can be very hard when you feel like there’s a party going on all over and you’re the only one who doesn’t feel like going.
I am thankful for my writerfriend and friend, Dena Douglas Hobbs, who has written a contemplative book, “Lighten the Darkness: An Advent Journey Through Hope,” in which she walks with each one of us in that darkness. She says it’s okay and is an encourager. As November finds her way to the door and takes her leave, leaving behind only the memories, some harder to bear than others, Dena reminds us in her book that we are not alone. and that the advent message is one of hope. She writes, “God comes into our broken world to be with us, to heal us, to save us from not only our enemies, but even ourselves.”
If any of you are local, you can purchase her book at Bare Bulb Coffee in Kathleen and a portion of the proceeds will go to support hunger missions. If you are not, you can order her book here. It is available as an e-book as well.
I also look forward to reading Dena’s latest work, a devotional for the littles, with my crew. I can’t wait to hear their laughter over the antics of Father Christmas and the North Polar Bear. And I just know we will be drawing pictures from the adventures of the little bear on his way to Bethlehem. The story just lends itself to good conversation and good thoughts.
I am thankful that, as this season and so much hurries and scurries on by me, I can shut it all off for at least a few minutes everyday, and sit and have coffee with my friend Dena (which I’ve been lucky enough to do in person as well), and with Mr. Thom– quieting my soul in the midst of the chaos and darkness and looking forward to the Light that is coming. And while I love my twinkly lights in my “roost” so much, they are nothing compared to the Light of Love and Peace. That’s what my favorite thing about Christmas is–feeling my heart fill with both of those things.
May we all find that to be true–hearts full to bustin’ with love and light and a peace that passes all understanding.
Love to all.