In His Own Words

And we now return you to “Days of our Homeschooling,” also known as “The Young and the Reticent.”

Today after much effort on one out of the three of our parts (*ahem* mine), our Princess and Cooter finished their math.  I don’t suppose it’s necessary to share with you that in the getting it done they both lost the privilege of using electronics at any point today, but I will anyway.  We focus a lot on math around here, because I want them to have that down.  I keep telling myself if they’ve got the math skills and they can read, the world’s at their door.  Or easily found in the next book they read.  All they have to do is open it.

While Princess wandered off to write a story about a spider (it was a writing prompt in the book, and yes, I decided to have her try it), I sat down with Cooter to work on handwriting and spelling and reading comprehension.  He had the spelling activity down.  The handwriting we are not even talking about right now, because I’m going for a tear-free day here.  But reading comprehension?  He’s got that, no problem.

Or does he?

The assignment was to read the story, and then tell it in his own words to another person.  He was supposed to write down whom he told it to, and then choose which sentence best expressed the lesson in the story.

It was a fable.

The one about the lion and the mouse.


Do y’all remember this one?  About the lion who catches the mouse, the mouse begs to be let go, promising he will help the lion out sometime.  The lion laughs so hard at the idea that the mouse could ever help him, the mouse gets away.  And later as it turns out, sure enough, the lion has something in his paw, it hurts, he needs help, and the mouse is able to fix it and make him all better.  And they become BFF’s FOREVER.

In a nutshell, yeah, pretty much.

I left the room for a minute while Cooter read his story.  When I sat down with him again, I asked him to read the directions, which he did.  I nodded.  Okay.  So tell me the story in your own words.

And this is what I got, run-on sentences and all.  Seriously, I’m not sure he even breathed until I stopped him.

“So there’s this lion and he works in his office and he’s tired from working all the time, you know, doing all that cat-killing stuff, and so one day he walks outside and he sees a RAT, and he goes to chase it but he trips and he skins his knee on the ‘concreek’ and it really hurts and he’s like ‘oowwwwww’ and the rat starts laughing so he gets up to chase the rat again, only he’s hurt so he—-”

“Wait.”  I shook my head to clear it out.  I looked over to scan the story quickly.  Yes, it’s the one I thought it was.  “Buddy, that’s not what you read here, is it?”

He shook his head without remorse.  “No, it’s not.  But it says right there–” he pointed, “to tell the story in MY own words, so that’s what I am doing.  And so then this lion, he was getting mad, but he went back in his office to get a band-aid and put it on his scrape that was hurting so bad and he sat down to think about how to catch that rat, and he thought and then…..”

Ahem.  No need to go on.  My mind pretty much lost track at that point anyway, what with trying to hold the laughter back and everything.

I mean.  That.  Child.  “In his own words” indeed.  I don’t think there was very much left from the original story at all.

*sigh* This is what I get for encouraging them to use their imaginations all the time.

But that’s really how it is with all of us, isn’t it?  We take this story we’ve walked into, this life that has gone on before us and will go on after–we take it all in and then we start telling it in our own words.  With our own insight and interpretation until all that’s left from the story we walked in to are the original characters.  We make the story our own, one only we can tell.

Tonight I’m thankful for a little guy who keeps me laughing.  I am proud of our Princess not running the other way when asked to write a spider story, especially after the fiasco of last week and the tears over that spider fact book.  I love that they are so creative, and that they teach me something new every day.  I am also thankful that they understand what they are learning in math–forgive me for wishing they’d also LOVE what they are learning in that subject.  And every subject.

Today the fall leaves fluttered to the ground as we did math and read stories and wrote words.  I remember so well sitting in the classrooms of my childhood, daydreaming out the window when I most likely should have been working on an assignment.  So today I am most thankful for little minds that are growing and windows to stare out of and stories to pull out of mid-air, like a pine seed drifting down towards the earth before landing and taking root.  For those things that land and take root, I am the most grateful of all.

Wishing you all a story to make you laugh and a window proper for daydreaming.

Love to all.


4 thoughts on “In His Own Words”

  1. As I get a little heavy on you hear … there’s even more to that lesson. In how WE react to how OTHERS see and recall something that’s happened. They know the story that they see and feel … but it may have strayed from the facts. And how we handle that is on us.

    Case in point (and I was going to write a blog post about this … I may still) I drive a larger SUV and in many parking lots, they don’t always give you wide spaces, so I am mindful of my parking. One day I had to part catterwonk (that’s my made up word for over the line and a bit crooked) because the cars on either side were over their lines. And I did mutter under my breath about the way “THEY” parked. But I was only going to be a minute. When I came back all the other cars were gone — and my lone BADLY parked truck was sitting by it’s lonesome, looking guilty. And I realized that the “story” looks like I’m a bad parker … and that’s the story I would tell if I didn’t know about the other cars. So now If I see a car that’s over the line … perhaps they had to park that way because of the person before them. The story we tell, from where we sit, is all about how we see it.

    And that’s in my own words 🙂 THANK YOU my sister friend!

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