This morning our Princess and I had a Mama/Princess event. Aub was at work, and the Fella and Cooter were out doing their “Guy’s Breakfast.” So my girl and I went to Bare Bulb Coffee for a tie-dyeing and “upcycling t-shirts into scarves” class led by one of my favorite local artists Micah Goguen and his trusty assistant.
It. Was. BIG Fun.
Gathered with friends and folks we had not met before, we cut, we twisted, and we bound with rubber bands–so many rubber bands–and then we bleached two color tees (one green and one yellow)-and our Princess added beautiful color to her white tee. The bleached ones we have already washed, and I love the patterns that came out in them. The tie-dyed one will be revealed tomorrow. She is almost beside herself with excitement.
We returned as a family this afternoon to dye pillowcases to brighten the stays of young ones at the Children’s Hospital in Macon. For a little guy who didn’t want to go, Cooter had a great time. He loved blending the colors and turning the white pillowcase into something cheerful and fun. Cooter, Princess, and my nephew Shaker all enjoyed themselves, and after they’d colored a pillowcase for a child in the hospital, they each were allowed to decorate one for themselves. They were told that sleeping on it could help them remember to pray for and send light to someone sick in the hospital.
This morning my knitting diva friend–Micah’s trusty assistant, who can do anything from building a deck or stairs for her dogs to climb into bed to knitting and sewing clothes for her grandchildren and their dolls, was teaching us how to make the scarves once our fabric was ready. As she began showing us the first step, she looked around. “Where are my scissors?” she asked, checking the counter and tables.
Someone reached to hand her a pair of theirs. “Here, these are really good scissors.”
My friend shook her head gently, and said, almost to herself, “No, let me find my blue-handled ones.” And then she did. The lesson continued.
It made me smile. Just an hour earlier when my girl was getting ready to cut her shirt as directed, she was having a hard time with a pair of scissors. A kind woman behind us offered us her scissors. “Here, use these. They are dressmaker’s scissors. They are made for cutting fabric.” (They may have been, but my girl still struggled a bit, which made me wonder about an “operator” issue. Never mind that, she did get it cut and we moved on.)
It tickled me later when I started thinking back on my day. And as I laughed to myself, I was also laughing at myself.
I don’t know if it happens all over, but us folks around here, we take our sewing scissors seriously. In case you didn’t know, yes, sewing scissors are only for sewing. And they are treasured and taken care of.
Which is probably why I asked if I could have my Mama’s sewing scissors.
To my knowledge they never touched anything other than fabric.
Okay, not more than one time. And I said I was sorry.
Those scissors were special. They were always ALWAYS where they belonged (but then again, not much in Mama’s house wasn’t) and they always cut precisely. I guess because she took them to be sharpened as they needed it. I can remember seeing signs at Hancock’s Fabrics back in the day with the date the scissors sharpener “truck” would be there. I guess Mama either took them there or Daddy might have sharpened them for her. Either way, she took good care of those scissors. And we knew we were to leave them alone. They were NEVER EVER to touch paper. Good heavens above, under NO circumstances were you ever to use them for a school project or even for cutting patterns as I recall. And I only did once. I felt so guilty over that, but as they are still cutting just fine, I guess the damage wasn’t irreparable.
I’m just as serious about my sewing scissors. I don’t let the children use them at all. I even got other scissors for cutting the fleece for blankets because I heard that fleece can dull them. (And I am picky about my fleece scissors too–I have the ones that are spring loaded to make it easy for cutting the strips. I often wonder why the fabric cutters in fabric stores aren’t issued those scissors–they sure can save your hands.) I am sure I have traumatized a child or three when I’ve seen them casually reaching for my sewing scissors for a craft project. Oh good gravy no.
Tonight I am thankful for the opportunity to learn a new craft. Mixing and changing colors–there is something soul-stirring in that. Creating. All those shades of light and dark coming together to make beauty. And finding a new purpose for something old and worn out, well, that fills me with hope. I am looking to be repurposed myself sometimes. To be made over for a new way to be in this world. And I’m grateful for the memories of my Mama and her scissors and to have people in my life who still live with the old ways. Sometimes–no, I’m starting to realize more and more–most of the time, the old ways ARE the best.
I was just thinking, sometimes it’s best to hold on to the old, but sometimes it’s best to create something new…..and sometimes you can do both at the same time…..
Life sure is a funny thing sometimes, isn’t it?
The transformation from t-shirt to scarf…..creation, I love it!