My Daddy loved stale vanilla wafers.
I learned to love them too. Or rather, I should say, I learned I loved them too.
Because, yes.
Very good. Â The flavor is no different, but it’s all about the texture.
Daddy and I never really talked about our preference. Â I just know that there was a feeling of comfort to walk in the house, open that first cabinet door to the right of the refrigerator and find a box of vanilla wafers with the top of the box closed but the bag standing wide open on the inside. Â The way that some things never changed made me happy.
Vanilla wafers were the first things not on the list of fruits and veggies and cereals that I was giving my children that Daddy handed each one of them. Â And they loved them…..and loved him for it. Â How could I be mad when I saw the look of sheer joy on their faces as they beamed, faces and hands and probably shirts covered in vanilla wafer goop that becomes much like glue? Â I can remember one of my three barely being able to open her eyes because of the goop surrounding them. Â But there was no mistaking that smile. Â Grin wide open.
So I’m not sure what it is about the stale wafers that is so appealing, but I was reminded of it when I grabbed one of the Fella’s sweet potato chips (yes, we have separate bags–that’s a story for another night though–the struggle is real, is all I’m saying), and I realized it was a little stale because the bag hadn’t been closed properly. (And–Georgia humidity.)
I was happy. Â That chip was the perfect texture.
And all I can think is there is something comforting about things–food and people and the like–who take in their surroundings and assimilate. Â You know, those that don’t have so many artificial ingredients that they stand up, and it’s like nothing can affect them at all.
I like a little compassion, I guess. Â In my people and my wafers and chips, apparently.
Tonight, I’m thankful for memories of my Daddy. Â Happy ones about shared joy and how he loved his grands. Â I’m thankful for opened bags that lend just the right amount of something to the things I enjoy. Â And I’m thankful for folks who allow themselves to take in what is going on around them and be changed by it. Â And still be beautiful and loved.
Love and wishes for a box of vanilla wafers, however you best enjoy them, to all.
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